If you want a man to chase you, you have to understand these 3 things first.
Men chasing women is nature in operation. It’s not necessarily true for women
When a man chases, it comes from a place of power and manhood. That’s is what men are built to do biologically.
Men enjoy the chase, the adrenaline rush, the uncertainty around how you feel about them, the feeling that they had to work hard for you and earn your love.
When a woman chases, it comes from a place of neediness, which can only result in pushing a quality man away or attracting ones who see her as an opportunity to take advantage of.
I think if you ever chased a man, you know that women do not enjoy the feelings resulting from chasing a man.
Modern dating view is wrong when it comes to men
Men and women have equal rights and obligations in today’s society. There is no question about that.
But when it comes to love, romance and relationships, it works differently.
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What works is polarity and complementarity ( and if you don’t believe me, just look around you the number of high achieving highly successful women who are miserable in love)
Romantically, men and women are at opposite poles.
That means you can’t ACT like a man if you want to Attract a man (and not just any man, but the high quality man of your dreams)
You should prioritize dating the men that like you over the ones you like but they haven’t expressed interest in you
Modern dating tells us that men and women can pursue each other in the same way.
In theory, a woman can approach a man who has no interest in her and make him like her.
Intellectually it’s a good theory, except it does not always work that way in real life.
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In real life, it’s a group of men who first choose a woman and then a woman picks up the winner from the group (except rare cases, which you will always find).
It is less often that a woman will turn a man who had no interest in her and make him fall in love with her.
When you get these 3 points, then you will be able to make a man who has already expressed interest in you chase you
The baseline is men are compelled to chase feminine women, not because they make an intellectual decisions that you are a feminine woman and they decide to chase you, but because biologically they are attracted to feminine energy because it reinforced their own masculine energy.
So what does a feminine woman do ( or not do ) that makes a man want to chase her?
For many years I looked very feminine but I was operating from my masculine energy and I did the exact opposite of this, which only lead to bad experiences with men to be honest.
1. Don’t make the first move
A move is an interest signal.
A feminine woman does not send around interest signals to men who had not expressed interest in her, she rather responds to their interest signals.
She is able to do that because she has accepted that she won’t choose a man out of the blue but rather she will wait for many men to approach her.
Only then she will be able to choose one.
So if you want to a man to see you as worthy of being chased, you should not make first moves.
That includes approaching men at work or social gathering, sending the first text after being matched on a dating app, friending or following men on social media.
2. Have an abundance mindset
A feminine woman is secure in her ability to attract as many men as she needs at any stage of her life.
She believes there are enough men out there for her not to be panicking if it does not work out with one of them so she does not need to retain those who want to leave her life.
3. Be warm and welcoming
Not sending the first interest signal does not mean hiding your interest or playing games.
A feminine woman will receive interest signals from men with a warm and welcoming energy.
A feminine woman adopts what is called “High intention low attachment”, which basically means that she hopes for the best but plan for the worst.
Practically, this means she shows and gives her best self, as if she was potentially in presence of Mr Right, yet she builds little to no expectations and has very little attachment to the outcome of a relationship if she has not been given solid reasons to do so, even when she really likes the guy and when he ticks most of her boxes.
She thinks that if it does not work out with him, there are many others who would line up to be in a relationship with her (and she truly believes it).
This mindset allows the feminine woman to behave in a fun and playful way that communicates her low attachment, because she has no expectation whatsoever and that shows how much confidence she has in herself.
4. Let the man lead
Give up on trying to control the dynamic of the relationship or even more practical aspects such as planning dates, starting conversations and being too proactive. let him do this work and sit back and relax.
5. Rotational dating
To support her feminine energy of lightness, playfulness and low attachement, a feminine woman will be seeing many men in parallel.
There is nothing wrong with that as long as it is done on the dating phase.
A feminine woman does not commit to seeing one person unless she is given solid reasons to do so, aka strong interest signals such as a man pursuing her.
And even then, she knows that seeing other men will create a competition dynamic among men without her telling, as her energy speaks for her.
Now, If you you want to implement this advice the right way and become a feminine woman who attracts high quality men like bees attracted to honey, you can do so with this self help guide by Dating Coach James Bauer.
It’s a step by step program that will help you build up your confidence and wash away any limiting beliefs you may have had on your worthiness of the man and the relationship of your dreams.
Thanks for reading,